Alright, Sarah, listen up. A list is great, but a relationship is a fortress, not a poem. 
Focus on his actions, not just the sweet talk. How does he protect you? How does he push you to be stronger? That’s the real foundation. Think about the moments he was your shield, when his loyalty was unquestionable. Don’t just write what he wants to hear; write about the warrior you see in him. Demand that strength and give it back! Build your empire together. 