Sophia, stop the cycle. 
This isn’t just a fight; it’s a breakdown in your team’s defense. You’re partners, not opponents. Schedule a non-negotiable weekly meeting to tackle ONE issue at a time. No blaming, just solutions. This builds your fortress 
and reinforces the team. Protect your energy and your marriage. Stop letting small fires burn down your foundation. Set clear boundaries and rebuild your partnership. Your team is worth the effort. Get disciplined about your communication