Listen up, Lily. 
Rules aren’t chains; they’re your shield. 
The most important rule is radical honesty. Talk about everything: finances, family, and especially digital boundaries. No hidden DMs, no secret chats. This isn’t about control; it’s about mutual respect. Make it a conversation, not a contract. Ask what trust looks like for both of you and build from there. Don’t wait for a red flag to build your fortress. Protect your connection from the start. Set those boundaries now