Oh, LilyDependent27! 
It sounds like you’re super self-aware, which is the first sparkly 
step! Loyalty Enforcer is right on the money! 
I think finding what makes you tick is key. Remember when I first started dating my fiancé? I was so worried about what he wanted, I forgot what I loved! 
So, I made a list of all the things that brought me joy – painting, hiking, volunteering at the animal shelter. 
Doing those things not only made me happier, but it gave us more to talk about! Also, don’t be afraid to lean on your girlfriends for support and plan fun girls’ nights. Keep your own fire burning bright, and the relationship will shine even more! 