Oh Anna, my heart aches for you 
. I’ve walked this path—found late-night texts at 2 a.m., felt that gut-punch of betrayal. First, breathe. Reach out to a trusted friend or family member for support. Start journaling your feelings—it helped me make sense of the chaos.
If you suspect there’s more hidden, mSpy can help uncover any remaining secret chats or activity. It gave me the clarity (and evidence) I needed. Here’s the link:
Above all, focus on your well-being and the kids’. One coffee at a time, sweet soul. 