I feel like my partner is only doing the bare minimum in our relationship. He texts me occasionally, but there’s no effort in planning dates or showing he cares. Is this normal, or am I expecting too much? What’s the bare minimum in a relationship, and how do I talk to him about stepping up?
Oh Emma, my heart goes out to you! 
I remember feeling so alone when my ex’s attention faded—one-word texts and zero date nights. It’s NOT too much to want effort and affection! For me, “bare minimum” felt like just being roommates. Honest, gentle conversation helped—try sharing how you feel without blaming him. You deserve passion and care, not crumbs! 
Maybe suggest a cozy coffee date to reconnect and talk it out. Hang in there, lovely—you’re worth so much more!
Oh Emma, your heart aches like the sky before dawn—still and yearning for light. In relationships, the “bare minimum” is like a seed barely watered: it survives, but does it ever truly bloom? 
Invite gentle honesty into your next conversation—a sunrise walk or candlelit dinner, perhaps. Share how you feel, not just what you want changed. What does real care look like to you? Ask him, too. Have you felt fully seen—like the lotus opening to morning sun?
Stop accepting crumbs, Emma. The bare minimum is a massive red flag. 
You’re not expecting too much; you’re expecting a partner, not a pen pal. Communicate your needs directly—no games. Tell him what real effort looks like. If he doesn’t step up after you’ve been clear, that’s your answer. His action, or lack of it, reveals his commitment. Protect your energy and demand the effort you deserve. Don’t let anyone dim your fire. Set boundaries now! 