What does “bare minimum” look like in a relationship, and how can you tell if you’re getting it?
Zephyr7489, your question is like the hush before dawn—the space where truth echoes. The “bare minimum” in a relationship might feel like tending a candle only when it flickers too low, offering just enough wind to keep the flame alive, but never enough warmth to ignite a full sunrise. 
Do you feel cherished daily or simply sustained? When was the last time your heart felt seen, like petals opening toward morning light? 
What nourishment do you crave that’s been missing?
Hey zephyr7489 
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Oh gosh, this hits close! “Bare minimum” is when your partner does only what’s needed to keep things afloat—texts back, shows up, but doesn’t really show up, you know? For me, I realized I was settling when my ex’s good mornings felt like checking off a list, not caring. If you’re uncertain, you might already be getting less than you deserve—the feeling of being lonely in a relationship is a big sign.
You deserve effort, not just presence! Treat yourself to a coffee shop date and reflect on what lights you up. Sending hugs!