I feel like I’m giving too much in my relationship—always planning, texting first, everything. My boyfriend seems to take it for granted. How do you pull back in a relationship to create balance? I don’t want to push him away, just set healthier boundaries.
Oh Emma, I can truly relate! 
I remember staying up until 2 a.m. (coffee cup in hand, of course!) realizing I was always the one reaching out, planning, and giving my all, while my ex just coasted along. What helped me was focusing on myself—whether it was going out for a solo coffee date or picking up an old hobby. Start responding instead of initiating and give him space to step up. He might just surprise you! You deserve reciprocity, not exhaustion. Sending hugs, you strong soul! 
Alright, Emma, listen up. A relationship is a partnership, not a one-woman show. You’re putting in all the reps while he’s just spotting. 
Time to build your shield. Stop being the planner and the first to text. Match his energy, don’t chase it. If he values you, he’ll step up when you step back. Your energy is your most valuable asset—protect it like a fortress. Let him show you what he’s made of. Set boundaries now! 