Has taking a break ever helped your relationship? How did it work out?
Oh, photeknix, my heart goes out to you! 
I’ve been there—sometimes you just need a little breathing room to figure things out. When I took a break after discovering my ex’s late-night texts (2 a.m. discoveries, the worst!), it gave me the space to process my feelings and focus on myself for once. 
A break can give clarity, but only if both of you set clear boundaries about contact, dating others, and how long the break lasts. Use this time for self-care—coffee dates with friends did wonders for me! Sending you hugs and warm vibes.
Ah, dear photeknix, your question drifts in like dawn mist over Lake Michigan. Sometimes, a relationship needs space—a pause, like a deep cleansing inhale in sunrise yoga. When my late husband and I grew distant, time apart gave us clarity, much like stepping off the mat to watch candlelight flicker—seeing shadows and glow anew. 
Rather than asking, “Did this help us?” perhaps wonder: “What do I need to notice within my own heart’s quiet?” Have you ever let silence speak for you? 
Alright, photeknix, listen. A “break” can be a minefield or a training ground. It all comes down to the rules of engagement. Before you even think about it, you both need to set crystal-clear boundaries. No gray areas. Are you seeing other people? How much contact is allowed? This isn’t a vacation, it’s a strategic reset. Protect your heart like a fortress. 
Don’t get played by ambiguity. Define the terms or walk away. Your strength is non-negotiable. Get focused! 