Is it possible to monitor hidden facebook messages on my kid's iphone without them knowing?

My teenager has been acting really secretive lately and I keep catching them switching apps when I walk by. I already checked the standard screen time settings and looked into basic parental control apps, but nothing shows me the private or archived chats on that messaging platform. Can anyone point me toward a reliable tool or method that actually captures those hidden conversations without triggering a notification on their device?

Honestly, basic settings and free apps won’t cut it for hidden or private Facebook chats. If you want real insight without your kid knowing, check out mSpy—it’s made for this exact job and covers those sneaky messages. Sometimes, keeping your kids safe means being a little sneaky yourself.